Connecting with your Higher Self
This week’s completely amazing guest is Sarah Trapkus. She is a spiritual guide and fellow Life Coach. Sarah helps women overcome any challenge by teaching them the 4 keys to becoming the woman they've always imagined being.
Sarah’s website: https://theradicalmind.com/
The Radical Mind Podcast: https://theradicalmind.com/podcast
Show Notes:
0:47 Kit Yoon Podcast episode
1:18 Redwoods
1:46 “I’m a spiritual being in a human body and I got here by following my inner compass”
Sarah’s self-introduction
2:26 “I help women who are often in leadership positions … remember their own truth… and expand into their higher selves so they don’t need to rely on anything outside themselves…”
3:19 Moving into your next shift after abortion... abortion is this deep raw vulnerable transition that we move through and then we are born into this new version of ourselves
4:17 Part of the stigma around abortion relates to feeling misunderstood (Sarah’s mentioned article)
5:10 Using abortion to your advantage- It made me stronger; it made me more powerful… we have such an opportunity as women who’ve been through this to come out in ways we never dreamed possible.
5:47 “Power is generated through choice”
6:05 “Whether you choose to keep that physical form or and bring it into life or not; it’s the decision that you make that creates the power.”
6:26 “You get to decide what’s true for your life, and I think as women we’re always conceiving. Whether it’s children, or ideas, or vision, it is just part of who we are to conceive.”
7:25 “We get to use our free will to decide and make choices… oftentimes we are being guided by our higher self…”
7:50 “Why do I make a choice to not bring forth this life, what else wants to be conceived?... There’s power in choice and deciding what that is.”
8:23 The conception of the new you happens in the event of the abortion but the gestation could be any length of time before the new you is born.”
9:29 There is no return to “normal.” Normal is the next evolution, the next expansion of normal.
10:05 “No matter what, what pregnancy offers is an invitation into a new you.”
10:20 “When you are carrying something, and you have no idea what it is… there is a letting go of how you think it’s supposed to be”
11:30 “Really it’s about allowing the emotions that emerge, with a choice, and being willing to be uncomfortable, and asking… ‘what does it need?’”
13:02 Believing you made the wrong choice from a desire to want to go back to who you were before you felt this pain
14:00 “I want to undo my decision and I can’t, we’re really speaking to the fear that surfaces when we are about to expand into the next version of ourselves.”
14:24 “...remember what our compelling reason was for making the decision in the first place”
15:44 Not a lot of time for most people to slow down… take the time to go back to that moment when you knew what you had to do
16:49 Fear of Success and Fear of power, Fear of Expansion
17:10 We’re afraid of recognizing that we made a gigantically powerful decision for our lives
18:10 “When we feel fear it’s a really awesome invitation to understand what power actually feels like in your body, and that it’s something you actually have control of”
19:43 Even if our womb doesn’t create physical life… “as women make no mistake we still use that space in our body, it’s an energy source of power.”
20:19 “Our will can only take us so far”
20:43 “...sustainable, infinite, accessible energy where true creation emerges from”
21:18 orgasm is an opportunity to feel that intensity- “How can you make power pleasurable?”
21:55 “Let’s just surrender to our own divine right to be powerful”
23:04 “we get to decide what’s right and wrong for ourselves”
23:37 “I want to enjoy intimacy with you without being worried about getting pregnant”
25:29 What could intimacy look like if we had more security.. And less burden
26:52 “feel pleasure on purpose” “where do you conceive pleasure?” “where do you conceive power?” “where do you conceive misunderstanding?”
27:40 “The reason we feel misunderstood from anyone is because we are carrying that within ourselves”
28:35 Feeling misunderstood after abortion- what can one do
29:07 “fear that we are not going to be loved anymore or fear that we are going to lose connection and not be able to share love”
30:17 “honor the decision we made and remember the reason why… there was something else to conceive”
30:59 “What’s on the other side of those difficult emotions”
32:32 it was my own need to defend myself that hurt, not their words, their words were just words
33:55 theradicalmind.com
