Wounded Doesn't Mean Broken
Master certified life coach Lisa Hatlestad helps people get unstuck, figure it out, break through limiting fears and blocks, heal old patterns and shame, and claim the life they are meant to live.
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Show Notes:
10:20 Lisa’s introduction
11:36 “If I really want to do what I know is my spiritual journey I have to just get out there.”
Wounded-healer archetype; “the soul curious”
12:47 Prairie Visionary Soul podcast
17:26 Chiron -devotion to heal
10:02 Karen Hawkwood Archetypal Playground
18:55 “We all have trauma in our life”
19:14 “Even if we had perfect childhoods… we come into this world with one wound or another…”
Where does “wound” go in the model?
21:17 “What we interpret as broken is ‘I suffer’”
Lisa’s childhood story
Growing up unmothered
23:12 “What I think we sometimes don’t understand is that that work never ends”
23:50 “If I were really healed I wouldn’t be feeling this pain”
25:15 “I wasn’t ashamed of my past, I was ashamed of talking about it… I should have just gotten over this”
Why does this still hit me as a wound?
Just because I picked it doesn’t mean I know how to do it
NYT article The Abortion I Didn’t Have
Can I have this baby? vs. Can I mother this baby?
31:13 “If you don’t understand that you are free to have a choice then you are not really free?”
For years I lied about why we didn’t have children
33:44 “I didn’t have the moral courage”
34:33 “There is a certain kind of courage that we are called to embrace…”
35:22 “to love themselves, to speak their truth, to dare be visible”
I had that abortion because I wanted it
I didn’t like it but I wanted it; I choose to own that I had it
37:31 “That courage doesn’t come naturally to anybody, I think it’s hard won”
If I admit what I wanted someone else will have a feeling about it
39:52 “all our human wound is theis terror of abandonment”
That decision lasted a lifetime. I’m gonna own it.
42:48 “I’m always so grateful to anyone who is willing to tell their own truth… maybe I can do this too”
45:11 “That tending of that wound”
45:55 “The beauty of wounds is they call us back to ourselves… they give us an opportunity every time we feel pain… compassion is the healing”
46:57 “I understand why I hurt; I am a whole person; I can see the rightness in me”
47:47 “We live in a world that shapes us to save our own lives by hiding”
