Releasing Jealousy After Abortion
Certified Life Coach and Relationship Expert Martina Booth helps people understand and let go of jealousy so they can create connection in their relationships.
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Show Notes:
1:30 Martina’s introduction
The Jealousy Coach
3:53 Martina’s abortion story
4:04 “I was old enough to be mother but I chose not to”
Abortion in Germany
5:47 “The worst thing was not knowing how to do it” (where)
7:46 “If you have this child you will be bound to this man for the rest of your life, and to me that was the worst thing”
8:50 “I can see how he could have used that child to control my every move”
9:12 “After that it was my problem, it was a woman’s problem”
12:05 “Because I’m okay with it…” they are okay with it
Shame and fear for bodies doing what they’re supposed to do
18:38 “ There are two people involved only one has to deal with it”
In every story there are many layers
19:37 “everyone has an opinion because they think it’s not their problem and it’s never gonna happen to them”
21:35 “You don’t know until you know”
Two types of jealousy
When you want something and it’s not yours
27:37 Go to the extreme: “Why would that be a problem?”
27:53 “Probably going to come back to some deeper thing”
29:02 “later we look for someone else to heal that wound for us”
29:55 “What is the thing that you want so desperately from your partner and their not even responsible to give you?
Is jealousy always linked to scarcity?
It’s always something deeper
33:50 “I feel this, what do I need right now from myself?”
The Body Keeps the Score
Ester Perel The State of Affairs
The Ethical Slut
37:10 “It doesn’t have to be this huge thing that destroys your life”
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